About Étoile

Your Trusted Guides

to Meaningful Travel.

Our Story

A Life Lived

Across Continents.

Étoile was born from lived experience — not trend-driven luxury. From two serene years in Bhutan’s Himalayas to four vibrant years in West Africa, our journey has been shaped by cultures, languages, terrain, and the quiet understanding that meaningful travel cannot be rushed.

We have experienced firsthand what it means to move between worlds — and to discover that the most powerful journeys are not the busiest, but the most aligned. As a family of globe-trotters raising third-culture kids, we understand the magic — and the complexities — of family travel better than most.

Today, we guide our clients the same way: with clarity, with discernment, and with deep respect for place. Every itinerary we design carries the same intention — to restore the traveller, honour the destination, and create stories that become part of your life.

“The most powerful journeys are not the busiest — they are the most aligned.”

— The Étoile Philosophy

30+

Years of Combined Experience

18+

Countries Lived & Worked In

4

Core Regions — Africa, Asia, Indian Ocean, Europe

1

Dedicated Advisor — Your Journey, Start to Finish

What We Believe

“We design journeys that are soulful, restorative, and deeply connected to
place — blending quiet luxury with cultural authenticity and nature
at its most breathtaking.”

Peace is the ultimate luxury
Meet the Team

The People Behind

Every Journey.

Founder · Journey & Experience Curator

Mary Poorteman

Mary curates journeys the way a storyteller crafts a narrative — with intuition, rhythm, and precision. Her years living in Bhutan’s Himalayas and across West Africa shaped not only her passport, but her philosophy: that travel should allow space to truly see, listen, and connect.

Her global experience gives her an instinctive understanding of how place, pace, and people shape a meaningful journey. Clients trust her to translate their vision into travel that feels seamless, considered, and deeply aligned with who they are.

Fly-Fishing & Adventure Advisor

Geert Poorteman

Geert brings a rare depth of field knowledge to Étoile. An ex–United Nations specialist who has worked in some of the world’s most remote regions, he understands terrain, logistics, and cultural nuance at a level few advisors do.

A seasoned fly fisherman who crafts his own rods and ties his own flies, and an experienced adventure motorcyclist across East Africa, North Africa, Lesotho, and the Himalayas — he ensures that adventure is not reckless, but expertly guided, grounded, and unforgettable.

Sustainability Advisor

Meghan Mattingly

Meghan ensures that every journey honours the places and communities it touches. Having worked across 18 countries in Latin America, Africa, and Asia — including with USAID — she brings strategic sustainability insight to the Étoile philosophy.

She believes travel should move at a considered pace and leave a positive, lasting imprint on people and place.

Geert and Meghan serve as specialist advisors to Étoile Journeys — contributing their expertise in adventure travel and sustainable practice to
ensure every journey we design is grounded, responsible, and deeply informed.

Begin Your Journey With Us.

Tell us where you want to go. We’ll handle everything else